Five Forms of Foreplay-Besides Oral

Here are my top five alternatives to oral sex… well, since I’m the one writing this and variety is the spice of life.

When you have a sexual partner that knows what they are doing while going down on you, the result can be pure bliss. I’m sure many people would attest to that. But what are some other forms of foreplay that can really get you going? Here are my top five alternatives to oral sex… well, since I’m the one writing this and variety is the spice of life.

Bondage

Okay, so I’m sure there are people out there who wouldn’t exactly consider this one romantic, but for the right receiving individual and the right partner setting the scene this can be an amazing experience. Simply waiting while strong sure hands tie me up, can really get me going, and I am slip and slide wet in no time. There is a lot of anticipation and I love giving up my control to Daddy. Throw a spreader bar in the mix and you have yourself a sensational night.

For a little inspiration check out Bondage For A Bargain.

Massage

For those who are on the more traditional romantic side! I love when I get to lay back, completely naked, and enjoy a nice rub down. Lately, we have been using a hemp seed massage and body oil that is spectacular. It is slightly warming but does not irritate my sensitive skin. Not only is it extremely intimate but you are getting moisturized at the same time. Two birds with one sexy stone.

Flogging

Although this one usually goes hand in hand with being tied up, I think it should be listed since it is exciting on its own account. It can be very thrilling to feel the soft leather (or faux in my case, poor moo moos) caress your body before a nice crack on the ass. Of course, a thwack other places are always nice, but a good booty busting is my absolute favorite.

Sexting

I know that this one may seem on the juvenile side, but I still love receiving sexy messages or dirty memes from Daddy throughout the day. Knowing that he’s thinking naughty thoughts about me while he’s away at work is an easy turn on. Who wouldn’t want to hear that their love is wanting to fuck them from behind while grabbing a fist full of their hair? This girl sure does! Not to mention a quick snapshot of his man meat is always nice.

Body Kisses

I have to admit that this one is by far my favorite! I love the feeling of his tender lips moving all over my body with his soft beard hairs trailing along my skin. He takes his time and the result incredible. It’s very focused attention for the affection whore that I am and it tickles. Especially when he roams over the parts of my body that normally don’t receive attention.

That’s it guys and gals! Hope you have gained some sexual inspiration that you can apply to your night. Or day if that’s what you prefer. Trying new ways to turn each other on keeps things from getting stale and it’s fun to explore new, exciting possibilities.

Surrender London’s BDSM Kit- Review

Surrender London’s BDSM Kit review

Ladies and gentlemen… subs and doms… kinksters of all ages! I urge you to listen up, for you’re about to be amazed!

Surrender London has come out with travel BDSM kits that are not only limited edition, but the beautifully crafted bags are handmade. The quality of the stitching and faux leather are divine as well as animal safe! Yay, cows!

The instruments, you will find, are constructed of stainless steel metal. So, not only are these mechanisms durable but also easy to clean and maintain.

If you find yourself the proud owner of one of these spectacular kits you will be astounded with the contents that are easily kept organized. Each piece has it’s own specific location held in place with an elastic strap and metal clasp.

Cum one, cum all… Hurry, hurry hurry, and see what astounding apparatuses you may use for your pleasure or pain. Each bag will contain:

Padded hand and ankle cuffs

Padded collar and leash

Four-way link strap for cuffs

Ballgag

Blindfold

Studded whip

Both ladies and men’s chastity devices

Four anal plugs (ranging in sizes)

Nipple clamp set

Penis plug

Cock ring

Pinwheel

Door hanger

This may be the ticket for the spine-chilling encounter you and your partner have been waiting for!

I personally have one of these babies proudly displayed in my bedroom, on the backside of my door, and we use it regularly.

I’m a fan of bondage and these magnificent cuffs are one of my absolute favorites. There are some nights where I prefer to be bound with tape or rope, but I have never known anything to be so comfortable as these cuffs. I keep going back to them because I never have to worry about losing circulation to my hands and feet. They are also lax enough not to cause any extra pressure to my joints, which is definitely a huge perk!

Another aspect I was thrilled with was the speed in which my package arrived. I was expecting a much longer wait time and was not expecting it to arrive for days when it showed up. They offer free international shipping with the price of the bag. A huge incentive! 🙂

From caging to clamping… binding to blinding… this stupendous kit has it all!

Bondage for a Bargain- Guide

Do you consider yourself a kinky kind of individual? Do you find yourself wanting to be bound, but are on a budget? No worries. I’ve listed all of my favorite, dirty DIY items that can be found around the house or purchased at a local hardware store for ten dollars or less.

Cohesive flexible bandages are amazingly comfortable, yet hold limbs together very well. Although it uses an adherent, it doesn’t leave your skin with a residual stickiness or pull body hair upon release.

This happens to be one of my favorites, simply for the fact that Daddy whips out his pocket knife when releasing me. I can be tightly bound, but it can be cut through effortlessly.

Paracord

Paracord (or 550 cord) can be found for about five dollars for fifty feet. This seems to work almost as good as my Fetish Fantasy Series Japanese silk rope, which costs about twenty dollars at our closest adult toy store and is only thirty-five feet. You can perform all the same knotwork at a fraction of the cost and have more length to play.

Bandannas

Bandannas are an item commonly found around our bedroom and are easily obtained from almost any dollar store or Walmart. Not only can you use them as an accessory in your wardrobe, but they also work perfectly for a blindfold or binding wrists and ankles. I was unconvinced of its worth the first time it was brought out, but quickly learned how secure it can be if tied correctly.

Neckties

A necktie can also be interchanged with the bandanna to cloak your lover’s eyes or their secure their extremities.

Belts

Almost every couple has a belt at their disposal and it can make for a great way to affix your partner’s limbs or paint their ass red when they’ve been naughty.

Lead Rope

We’ve recently purchased a horse tie out (or lead rope) at our local feed store for ten dollars. It was originally one-hundred feet long, but we since decided to make it two fifty foot ropes. I genuinely love the feel, braid, and weight that this one has to offer. It’s slightly heavier and more rugged feeling, but still slick and extremely flexible.

This would be a great consideration for anyone who enjoys pet play.

Zip Ties

And lastly… zip ties. No, you don’t have to be a serial killer to enjoy a nice bag of heavy duty zip ties. I have quite a few scattered about the bedroom and they are surprisingly convienent to grab for some spontanious bondage. The do have a little more bite to them if you aren’t careful and fasten them too tightly, so be sure to leave a tiny bit of wiggle room. As with any binding, you do not want to loose circulation.

You can also hold a handful of these babies by the ends, and poof… you have a makeshift flogger.

AN ADDITION

After I published this article I’ve had people say they enjoy saran wrap. Apparently it works well and is aesthetically pleasing. Anything else you would advise to someone new to bondage and on a budget?

I hope these bargain bondage hacks inspire you to think outside your toybox. Go forth and learn how to be turned on daily by seemingly average household items.

Fetish Fantasy Series- Japanese Silk Rope- Review

When my darling partner brought this little gift home I was super excited, and it didn’t disappoint. It was gentle restraint that we’ve continued to use on a regular basis. It is great for the novice knot worker and restrained partner alike.

Just as a precursor warning… afterwards you my find yourself aroused in everyday situations. I tend to notice rope and other items that could be used as restraints in my day to day life and my mind has a habit of going to the dark side pretty quick. Having to walk around work or attend a family function while your panties are wet isn’t always ideal.

True story.

Upon opening the box I was pleased to notice that it came without any odor and was exceptional quality considering it only cost twenty dollars.

Features

  • 35 Feet Long
  • 1/4′ Thick
  • Super Soft
  • Reusable
  • A Pipedream Product

Additional ideas you may consider to compliment your bondage experience could be a blindfold, flogger or paddle, and of course dressing up (or down) for the occasion.

So, if you are looking dip your toes into the world of power play, thinking of trying Shibari out as a new hobby, or are just looking to spice up the bedroom with a new sexy element, you may want to try out this Japanese silk rope.

Fetish Fantasy Series Pleasure Tape- Review

Yes, this is my ass. You’re welcome.

Itching to be bound?

If you’ve heard the term Tie Me Up Tuesday and thought that was a phrase you could get behind, this tape may be for you. Yes, you!

It is an amazing bondage tool for the restraint novice considering there’s little to no bite while bound.

My partner and I have used it several times, and I have yet to be disappointed.

Handing over complete control to someone you entirely trust is fantastic. Knowing that I am safe while being restrained allows me to lay back (or however he wants me positioned) and just focus on the sensations being given to my body.

What Makes This Tape A Great Tool?

Not only is this shiny PVC tape by Fetish Fantasy visually appealing, it only adheres to itself.

Meaning, it won’t leave you feeling sticky or attach to body hair. A great feature considering this product can not only be used for binding limbs, but also as a gag or blindfold. Nobody wants to taste adhesive or have it rip out their eyelashes. Ouch!

Being cut free after use is super easy and slightly sexy.

Whether you are frisky and feeling adventurous, or in your fledgling stage to rope bunny bliss, I would highly recommend Pleasure Tape for any guy or gal’s playtime box.